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Saturday, September 1, 2012

Boo Me, Maybe?


To boo, or not to boo. It appears that, in Philadelphia, that is not a question.

When the Cincinnati Reds and Washington Nationals came to Philadelphia and brought Scott Rolen and Jayson Werth, the boos rained down for a solid week in Citizens Bank Park.  These two are, as most will tell you, public enemies #2 and #3 to Phillies fans (I surmise J.D. Drew remains #1, even though he played his last game almost a year ago).  Not surprisingly, lacking a legitimate “will the Phillies make the playoffs?” storyline, much of the media coverage – and Twitter talk – focused on the treatment Rolen and Werth received from fans and whether or not it was deserved.

Just to be clear: I do not boo. I choose not to boo.  But that doesn’t mean I don’t think others have a right to boo.  Players may not like to hear it.  Even members of the media may not like to hear it.  But when it costs a small fortune to take the family to a game (counting tickets, parking, refreshments, and maybe even a souvenir if there's any money left over), I’m okay with fans who vent their frustration over poor performance, lack of hustle, or – in the case of Rolen and Werth – a couple of guys who just didn't want to play in Philly anymore.

However, there is a line that should not be crossed.  Unfortunately, on more than one occasion, I’ve seen it happen.  “I have kids, I’ve got a wife, I’ve got a mom and dad,” Jimmy Rollins said in 2008.  “Before I was a ballplayer, I was a person and I am a person, the same way you are. So you say something [to me] as a person – forget the uniform – as a person, I could say something back.  But because of the uniform, [the fans] can say anything [they] want and [the uniform should be] my armor, my shield.”

Rollins took a lot of flak for his comments in 2008 about Phillies fans being “front-runners.”  He also failed miserably when he tried to adequately explain exactly what he meant.  Nevertheless, in this specific instance, he’s right.  Fans shouldn’t say anything they want.  There should be some boundaries.  But right now, there aren’t.  Which is why, during their brief rivalry in 2008, I didn’t take my daughter to Mets games.  I didn’t want to expose her to all the nonsense – often profane – coming from fans of both teams in our section.

The bottom line is, if people want to boo, I say let them.  Given Rollins’ lack of hustle recently, and Charlie Manual’s reaction to it, Jimmy should expect to hear some the rest of the year.  We can only hope the booing doesn't turn into outright abuse because, sadly, there are fans who abuse players unfairly and take it entirely too far.  It’s a shame really, because I’m tired of my daughter asking me, “Daddy, why is that man so angry?”

Perhaps when she’s older I can tell her it’s because he is a sad, pathetic, drunk, frustrated ex-high school athlete who thinks he was just one bad break away from a professional baseball career, so he blames the current players for his sorry lot in life.  But for now I just say, “I’m not sure honey, but we both know we shouldn’t talk to people like that, right?”  Then she smiles, nods her head, and goes back to eating her ice cream.

How could anyone boo that?


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